Here is a quick test: without looking, what is your spouse's go-to coffee order, and how sure are you?
If you answered fast, nice work. If you hesitated, you are in good company, because plenty of couples know the big things about each other and slowly lose track of the small ones, the favorites, the quirks, the little details that make a person who they are. Those small things matter more than they seem, since feeling known is a huge part of feeling loved.
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The purposes of a person's heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.
β Proverbs 20:5 (NIV)
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We just built a new game for you, and we're excited to tell you about a fun new resource to help couples communicate. It's called Know Me, Love Me, it's free, and you can play it in a few minutes on your phone.
It plays a lot like the old Newlywed Game. One of you answers a question about yourself, the other guesses, and every match earns points. Ten questions, one phone, and plenty of "wait, you thought I would say that?" π
Here is how it works:
- βPlay together on one phone and pass it back and forth, or play apart by texting your spouse a link so they can guess your answers on their own time.
- The questions run from silly (how do you handle a spider in the house?) to sweet, with a light faith question in every game.
- The last three questions count double, so nobody is safe until the final reveal.
- You finish with a Couple Score and a title, anywhere from Just Getting Started to Haven Level.
The best part usually happens after the reveal, when one of you says "since when?" and the other tells the story behind the answer. Those little conversations are where connection grows, and the game is just a fun way to start them.
Then pass it on. Send the link to the couple you know, someone in your small group, your parents, or your siblings, and see who really knows each other best. Loser buys dessert. π§
Try it tonight after the kids are down, or save it for your next date night.
Pray first. Plan together. Pursue forever.
P.S. Hit reply and tell us your Couple Score. We would love to know who walked away with bragging rights!
In expectation,